DIVORCE?..NO!..NO!..NO!

     DIVORCE IN MY "LIFE DICTIONARY"  HAVE TWO DEFINITION,THE FIRST ONE IS DEFINE AS A COUPLE WHO PREVIOUSLY MARRIED HAPPILY BUT WHEN ENCOUNTER WITH SOME SORT OF PROBLEM,THEY SOLVE IT USING THEIR EMOTION AND TAKE EASIEST SOLUTION WHICH IS DIVORCE AND CONTINUING BLAME THEIR PARTNER AND LEAVING THEIR CHILDREN IN WITHOUT GETTING "PARENTS LOVE"...I CALL THIS "DIVORCE OF LIFE".


     SECOND DEFINITION IS "DEATH DIVORCE" WHERE THE COUPLE IS DIVORCE WHEN EITHER ONE OF THEM IS DEATH DUE TO THE SICKNESS OR ANY OTHER REASON.


     SO,WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO WRITE IS ABOUT THE "DIVORCE OF LIFE" WHERE BOTH PERSON IS STILL GOT THEIR SOUL ATTACH TO THEIR BODY AND WHAT TO DO TO REDUCE THIS DIVORCE PHENOMENA WHICH HAVE ALMOST BECOME A TREND NOWADAYS.


     FIRST,LET'S TRY TO SORT OUT THE FACTOR THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE...THE KEYWORDS I CAN POINT OUT FOR NOW ARE MISUNDERSTANDING, EGO, AND INTERRUPTION FROM THE 3RD PARTY...I THINK I DON'T NEED TO ELABORATE THESE FACTOR AND FOCUS ON WHAT TO DO TO AVOID DIVORCE WHEN YOU CONFRONT WITH THESE FACTOR INSTEAD..


     SO,WHAT TO WHEN YOU CONFRONT WITH THESE KIND OF SITUATION?...FIRSTLY,TRY TO KEEP YOUR COOL AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE(I WOULD LIKE TO POINT THIS TO THE MEN BUT IN THIS CASE,BOTH SIDE SHOULD KEEP THEIR HEAD COOL TO LET THE BRAIN PROCESS ALL THE THING DURING THE SITUATION AS RATIONAL AS POSSIBLE)..SECOND,DO NOT ALLOW YOUR EMOTION TAKE OVER THE SITUATION SINCE THIS WILL LEAD TO THE DISASTER..LAST BUT NOT LEAST,TRY TO THINK AHEAD LIKE WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN FOR THOSE WHO HAVE CHILDREN AND THINK OF YOUR MARRIAGE FUTURE OR AT LEAST YOUR PARENTS FEELING BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO TAKE ANY DRASTIC ACTION..