YOU OR YOUR PARENTS?...

          HAVE YOU EVER BE IN A POSITION BETWEEN .YOU AND YOUR PARENTS DECISION?..IT MIGHT BE ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE GONNA BE IN THE FUTURE,WHICH SCHOOL YOU WANNA GO BUT YOU PARENT SEND YOU TO ANOTHER SCHOOL, AND SOMETHING LIKE THAT?..


     LET ME TELL YOU A STORY TO MAKE YOU GET THE PICTURE OF WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY..I HAVE A FRIEND AND HE HAVE MANY SIBLINGS,AROUND 11 OR SOMETHING AND HIS PARENT INCOME AROUND $190 PER MONTH(SALARY FROM 6 YEARS AGO) AND HIS FAMILY NEEDED MONEY..SO,AS A FIRST CHILD,HE GOT A HUGE RESPONSIBILITY TOWARD HIS FAMILY AND HIS SIBLINGS..SO,WHEN THE TIME COME FOR HIS TO DECIDE WHETHER TO CONTINUE STUDYING AT THE UNIVERSITY(WHAT HE WANT) OR FIND A JOB AND HELP HIS FAMILY(WHAT HIS PARENT WANT)..


     NOW,HAVE YOU GET THE GIST OF THE STORY?..SO,WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN HIS SITUATION AND WHAT TO DO IN CASE YOU EXPERIENCE THIS KIND OF SITUATION IN THE FUTURE?..


     BEFORE WE PROCEED, LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I DID OR ADVICE I GAVE TO HIM BEFORE HE MAKE HIS DECISION...I SAID TO HIM THAT WITH HIS CURRENT LEVEL OF EDUCATION AT THAT TIME, HE WILL DEFINITELY FOUND A JOB AND CAN DEFINITELY HELP HIS FAMILY AND SIBLINGS, BUT HOW MUCH HELP CAN HE BE TO HIS FAMILY?...THEN I SAID, IF HE CONTINUE HIS STUDYING FOR ABOUT 3-4 YEARS MORE,AND AFTER GETTING A DEGREE,HOW MUCH DIFFERENCE IN SALARY WILL HE GET ?..


     NOW,LET WE PROCEED WITH WHAT TO DO WHEN WE NEED TO CHOOSE BETWEEN OUR PARENT OR OUR OWN DECISION...IT'S TRUE PARENTS ALWAYS THINKING FOR THEIR CHILDREN HAPPINESS,BUT SOMETIMES,THEY ALSO WILL MAKE A MISTAKE...SO,AS A GROWN UP,YOU SHOULD ANALYZE BETWEEN THE CHOICES BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY DECISION AND IF YOU THINK THAT THE DECISION YOU TAKE WILL HURT YOUR PARENT FEELING,YOU SHOULD PROVIDE THEM WITH SOME CLEAR EXPLANATION BEFORE YOU TELL THEM YOUR DECISION AND WHY YOU MAKE THAT DECISION..:D